Breaking up with friends

[Emily]

I tried to bring stuff into a friends awareness tonight basically telling him I did not feel respect or an equal exchange in our dynamic. I was met with a lot of resistance that I'm selfish, self centered and always make things about me. I don't believe this to be true but how do I know if its truth or projection? I do feel like this friend is choosing the old earth (karmatic relationships) and I'm choosing the new earth as much as possible.

I have been having negative dreams about this person for several months. During one dream I got locked into a closet and he shut off the light intentionally so I could not see and than it was dark in my dream. I had one positive dream about him in the past 6 months and multiple negative.

How do I further remove my energy from this relationship? I did a cord cutting but I feel like this is a place my energy often leaks. I would like to invite my energy back so I can create more of what I know is possible. This is a "problem" I haven't been able to solve but I know my body and soul are capable of so much more than an uneven energy exchange.

[Valentina]

Well you did your part in trying to discuss the imbalance you feel in the relationship. If your friend does not want to put in the amount of work that you want to put in to improve your friendship and does not even acknowledge your feelings, then you have your answer right there. I think at this point, you just have to physically remove yourself, not just energetically. You can keep doing the cord cutting meditation every few days or so but I think it's time to step away, for a little while at least. Remember, what's meant for you is meant for you. That person may need the space to realize the imbalance and your paths might realign again. I don't know, I know it hurts when you have attachment to people but you gotta do what feels good to you.

[Valentina]

Also Maryam has this EFT for energetic boundaries video, might help...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iKVoA5-zfsM